How it began 

Migration for matrimony .

Let's  start this story from the point when this perspective of our migration began look more realistic .Before we were just two friends girls .Well .I thought that we were friends but our friendship didn't survive  in this extreme situation . I will always have mixed up feelings to this girl .When we arrived to Ireland I  have got  to know   her  uncovered real face and it has been awful experience  but  anyway I will be always grateful for bringing me here. What the most valuable thing i have reached here is independence .

We were taking about that we should just leave all this stuff  behind and start a new happier life abroad for one and half year .We were just dreaming .It was exactly her desire .We were like walking  in the fog without any particular plan . We knew that Islands are going be opened soon for Poles and this was  a chance for us . 

But after her vacations in Ireland and meeting Tony all our strict plan got some realistic shape . From me it depended that will be work for me or not .

I will move on with this story soon......                                            

 

An idea of moving abroad i had got into my mind from a time when i just finished a school . I could not see a bright future for me and because my brother has been leaving in Austria for a 6 years i thought that would be a good idea to join to Him there. It was a trial and i went over there with intention to stay for a while .But this idea collapsed and He put me into train to Poland after just 10 days .It has been very disappointing event  for me  .I must admit even heartbroken .So my dream blew away and i forgot and even didn't think about anymore .

What happened after a long years ?Those were a challenging and difficult years like a life in Poland is not easy .It has  been improved a lot previously but for me it was just just only surviving from day by day . I had to be very creative but i got simply tired about a whole this stuff . I have tried a lots and always was moving from a job to earning a commission payment only .After along years i have realized that it probably wasn't my path . But it was necessary to do whatever just survive . Sometimes i miss to be struggle and  overcoming  obstacles .I think it is developing and shaping us. Sometimes i  am angry for me for staying in comfort zone for so many years but i see my mission and purpose of everything .

All this stuff and  mainly fact that my mother passed away brought me back to this idea of moving out from .I really didn't care what is gonna happen for me . 

Jola had a huge desire to emigrate .So let's go to the West !

But how to do it ? We were just debating  and speculating how we can figure it out Nothing was clear and obvious .

And she went for a pilgrim to Ireland her promising land . 

And from that point Her big love story began and my Irish adventure too . 

 

She returned after absolutely excited and in love with this country and also fallen in love with Anthony ;ordinary Irish country man who was just a builder .

I'm going  to give  You more details later on .

It's a story like from a romantic movie . For this reason i love real stories perhaps we do not need make up any fiction in fact life 

is writing a better stories then any author would just imagine .

Jola went to see her dreaming world . As it was very classic pilgrim they went to the pub .Well ten pints of beer just to make a break after praying it was something what You are really suppose to do when You visit Ireland (this is  a very limited stock during pandemic(sorry for digression ).So let's assume that they had to experience lovely Irish culture and feel this atmosphere This is a cottage called Ballymacarbry .The reason why they stopped there was that they went  to see monastery located nearby .

And in the  meantime he came along .Her Irish destiny .In some way this event became a turning point of my life too. If somebody said me before that it could ever happen i would laugh with . 

 

The best is still ahead and is just waiting over the corner .We can't stop believe in it .I opened a new chapter of my life.

 

She got so excited and fascinated . Nothing could stop her from idea of moving there .

As this is happening a lot in lives they didn't exchange their contact details .So she wrote letter to this pub .And amazingly she got an answer! Would You believe! She addressed to a man in the white shirt . But it was a village where they knew him .So he received and answered . This crazy idea worked. Their love exploded like a fire with all power . 

They started corresponding .That time it was not so easy like in present days . They were writing letters . I miss it.

So soon he decided  to come visit her. We started make a plans .Oh no wait  for a min .They started make  a plans.

 

 

We started a hot discusses about our future in a new reality . He came over a few times and month by month she was closer to make decision to leave everything in Poland and follow him. We decided that I will eventually follow her  later in a few months term maybe in November .Well we had a farewell party and i said bye . 

She left for him  everything  to start her dreaming life together . 

But hold on .There something went wrong . She returned after just only one and half month with ticket bought already .

This relationship didn't work out unfortunately. 

Situation became dramatic perhaps she left her job. However this big love has got collapsed  but anyway at that moment she desperately wanted back there . 

Our brains got burned . We had a lots of brain storms and emotional chats and were raising up this issue and others around regularly twice a week .Originally we planned that i will join later when she will be in stable situation . But it could be covering my ass .So from mine point of view  what was a right thing to do it was don,t leave my the best friend in this dramatic situation alone . Well later on i heard from her that i have been never her friend that we are not friends and we will ever be a friends .

It was a great pay back . But i will tell about a little more in the next page .

So i tried improve my so basic English with another friend . I am so grateful for a such wonderful support from my friends during this preparation time .

I still remember when one of them asked me for what purpose I am going there .Another replied that i am going there  for a life .I haven't clue that he was totally right .I was dreaming about living in sunny Spain one day .But in fact is over 16 years passed over here .

I will share how it began on the next page ......